Behas O Mubahisa Mohabbat Ya Parents ?

[~*Rano*~]

Originally Posted by Meena-Cartoon

Agar Larkey mein koi kharabi na ho to, parnts inkaar kyoun karengye?

agar main jaanti hon k larka bilkul theek hai, of ma own choice, or mere prnts nh maan rhey to main yehi koshish krungi k main onko manaawon

agar wo naa maney to i will marry e prson of ma own choice, kyuonk parnts zyada der naraz nh reh sktye, wo log baad mein khud hi maan jaayngey

agr baad mein meri life mein prob ho to, main apney aapko blame krungi, kyounk banda me ne choose kiyya tha, main khud hi respsble hongi, main at least apney pents ko taaney to nh dungi, jesa k main ne unpe ye ehsaan kiyya ho unk pasand k larkye se shaadi kar key k

ap ko yeh pata hai keh islam main marzi ki ijazat hai...kaya yeh nai pata keh maa baap ki nafermani ki ijazat hai keh nai?...


kisi aisay shakhs say shadi karo gi jis say maa baap nay mana kiya.....yeh nafarmani nai hogi un ki?

or kitni galat soch hai keh maa baap zada dair naraz nai reh saktay tu ais liye araam say shadi ker lo usi say jis say ap ka dil hai.....najaiz faida un k payar ka aitbar ka....wo tu zahri baat hai maa baap hain un ki muhbbat he ap k saath aisi ho gi keh shayed wo maaf ker k apna laien..lakin kabhi un k dil main jhank ker dekhna tab jaan jao gi keh tumhare aisay kernay say un ko kitni takleef hai per apni mamta say majboor ho ker aj apna liya hai tumhien.....lakin tum nay un k saath kiya?

[Mr.Bean]

Originally Posted by Popeye

u ko ijazat dey saktey hain hum mashwara hy dey saktey hain

dai saktay ho kiyon nahi dai saktay :s Mashwara bhi qabool hai hamain

[~shani~]

Originally Posted by Mr.Bean

dai saktay ho kiyon nahi dai saktay :s Mashwara bhi qabool hai hamain

itney farmabardaar kab sey hogaye

[*Lucky*]

attention all members

wo sb members jo last behas main keh rahy thy k aap ki muhabbat wapis aa jaye to nahi apnaayen gay cozzz muhabbat main koi majboori nahi hoti or ab wo sb ye keh rahy hain k parents ko nahi chorna chahiye

to janab aap ki muhabbat ko ye majboori gher lay to kia kehty hain ye b to majboori hi hai na...

[insh]

Lucky bohat teez ho tum kehte hain is k bare main bhee kahain gay zara sabar karo chalako masi

[captain planet]

Originally Posted by ~shani~

itney farmabardaar kab sey hogaye

popye ap ki spinach ki taqat hi boht hai

[~*Rano*~]

lucky baji me ko u k sawal ki he samhj nai ayi..clearly poucho zara

[*Lucky*]

Originally Posted by insh

Lucky bohat teez ho tum kehte hain is k bare main bhee kahain gay zara sabar karo chalako masi

is ka koi jawaab nahi

coz us ki majboori ye b ho skti hai k parents ko nahi chor skta to us ny apni muhabbat qurbaan kr di...

Originally Posted by ~*Rano*~

lucky baji me ko u k sawal ki he samhj nai ayi..clearly poucho zara

dekho beta

u ny kaha tha na k muhabbat main koi halaat koi majbooriaan nahi hoteen kisi majboori ki bina par aap ki muhabbat aap ko nahi chor skti or jo chor day wo muhabbat nahi hoti...to us ko ye majboori aa jaye k parents or muhabbat main kisi aik ko qurbaan krna pary or wo apni muhabbat ko qurbaan krdy to hoo e na us ki majbooriii???????

hum sb keh rahy hain na k muhabbat ko qurbaan kr do bur parents ki muhabbat ko nahi to aap ki muhabbat b apni muhabbat ko apny parnts ki khatir chor day to us ki majboori hoo e naaaaaa????????

[tanhae]

aj kal ke dor mai asa kon sa insan hai jo kasi se suchi mobbhat karta hai ager kare b kisi waja se wo uss ko na milye tu aj nahi tu kal bhool hi jata hai lkh parents se agye kio b nahi mai tu parents ko hi chosse karo gai

[Islam-Peace]

Originally Posted by ~*Rano*~

ap ko yeh pata hai keh islam main marzi ki ijazat hai...kaya yeh nai pata keh maa baap ki nafermani ki ijazat hai keh nai?...


kisi aisay shakhs say shadi karo gi jis say maa baap nay mana kiya.....yeh nafarmani nai hogi un ki?

or kitni galat soch hai keh maa baap zada dair naraz nai reh saktay tu ais liye araam say shadi ker lo usi say jis say ap ka dil hai.....najaiz faida un k payar ka aitbar ka....wo tu zahri baat hai maa baap hain un ki muhbbat he ap k saath aisi ho gi keh shayed wo maaf ker k apna laien..lakin kabhi un k dil main jhank ker dekhna tab jaan jao gi keh tumhare aisay kernay say un ko kitni takleef hai per apni mamta say majboor ho ker aj apna liya hai tumhien.....lakin tum nay un k saath kiya?

first of all
Islam is all about rights and limits, Quran tells us clearly rights and limits of every1,
of Course we have to respect our parnts, i didnt say k main apni pasand ki shaadi kar key hi rahungi:-

what i said was, k agar main apney liye koi larka choose krun, or us mein koi kharabi na ho to of course i will marry him, even tough my parnts ar against it, Andddd
if my parnst choose e life partner 4 me, or agr us larkey mein kuch kharabi nh, or mujhe pasand hai,,,yahan takk k islam ne to huemin ek mahram k saamney baat krney ki bhi ijazat di hai, or agar wo larka bilkul theek ho to i dnt hve e ryt to reject him....

But if um e religious girl, and if my parnts arnt religious at oll, and they choose e boy fr me hu is e utla modren, etc, do u thnk our life wud be successful??? no...kyounk life hum ne guzarni hoti hai, at least aagye jo kuch bhi ho main dil mein apney parnts ko to guilty nh thehraaongi, taakey unko gunahh milta rahey:-

Rahi baat maan baap ko naraz krney wali to mera hargiz ye matlb nh tha, k main Nauz Billah kisi se shaadi kr k bhaag jaaon or phir aa key apney aprnts ko mana lun,,, main ne kaha k main unko mananey ki koshish krungi ot agr wo na maaney to i wud do as i want to do:-
Islam main sirf maan baap k huquuq nh aaye, olaad k huqquq bhi aayen hain:- or zaroori nh k hum is point pe aa k waldain k huquuq ko yaad kren:-

Balkey is point pe waldain ko olaad k huqquq poorey krney chahye
The Quran says:-
"You are Forbiddent to Inherit women against Their Will"

My parnts have e ryt to choose e boy for me
And i have e ryt to choose e life partnr of my own choice:-