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    asking Haq e mehar ........is it an issue ?why so? (Daband Muqaabla 3)

    Assalam u Alaikum !

    Dowry jesi curse ne to hmari society ko buri tra bad-amni ka shikar bnaya hi tha jis k boht se incidents samny aty rahy magar kuch arsa pehly hony waly "Haq e Mehar" se mutalik is incident ne mje kafi heran o preshan kiya...
    Hoa kuch youn k aik larki ne Haq e mehar mai 10 lakh ki demand ki ... islam ki instuctions k mutabik females ko apni marzi ka mehar rakhny ki ijazat hai magar mard k financial status ka khayal rakhty hoay k kahen aisa na ho k us ki earning to 10,000 ho or haq mehar 1 lakh rakh dia jaye ....
    Wel baat ho rahi thi incident ki so larki ne haq mehar mai 10 lakh demand kiye or aisa hrgiz nhi tha k wo larka pay na kr skta ho he was financially very strong so could easily pay it. but he considered it his disgrace although is mai insult ki koi baat thi hi nhi .... Magar Us ki soch dekhiye he said ok then got married with that girl and when brought her to his home he payed 10 lakh immediately along with divorce papers merely saying that
    "tumhary liye paison ki importance hai so get married with money not with me"


    As far as i read it is written in quran (If we follow)
    "Aurton k mehar khushi se ada kro"
    don't remember the sura refrence.....

    What do u think about his thinking?? was she wrong if demanded her Mehar whose right ALLAH gave her??

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    Default Re: Haq e mehar ........is it an issue ?why so? (Daband Muqaabla

    wsalam

    good topic .. baat yeh hai k yeh family ko shadi se pehle decide kar lena chahe takay koi issues na hon .. bajae larki larka apas mai decide karein

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    Default Re: Haq e mehar ........is it an issue ?why so? (Daband Muqaabla

    nice topic
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    Default Re: Haq e mehar ........is it an issue ?why so? (Daband Muqaabla

    Walaikum assalam

    Nice Topic

    Bat yeh hai k haqq mehar ada kar dena chahiay jaisay k Allah ka hukam hai magar jo case aap ne bataya us main ethically bhi the girl was wrong. Matlab aap aik banday pe trust kar rahay ho to us say atleast mashwara to karo k I wanna this so what do u say?? Yahan thora problem aa jata hai meray khayal se to

    But yes, The guy did a very very bad thing. That was not a very big problem but kya kia jaaye, Har insaan khud ko hi haqq pe samajhta hai



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