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    HUmary mohtaram member @King Kong; say aik thread main baat kartay huway zikar nikla kay 'bachoon ki parwarish' tou socha kay iss per thoRii tuu tuu main main ho jaayain.

    waisay bhi baal bachay waalay members hain yahan jo kay humain apnay experience say aur jo shada shuda nahin hain woh doosroon kay experience say apni rayay say aagha karain gain....

    jahan tak mera taaluq hay main bhi apnay zaati experience share karoonga pittnay aur sudharnay waalay

    questions jo zehan main hain woh yeh hain:


    1. Kia waldain ko bachoon ko sudharnay kay liye unki pitayii karna zaroori hay?
    2. Kia school main teachers ka bachoon ko maarna 'justifiable' hay?
    3. Kia bachoon kay diloon main Abbu ka aur 'Bhahoo' ka khauf paida karnay say woh aap kay farmabardaar bann jaayain gain?
    4. Bachoon kay confidence ko high karnay kay liye kia kadam uthanay chayeh?
    5. Bachay ki zehnii tarbiyat aur amli tarbiyat kay liye parents kay khudh ka kirdaar kaisa hona chayeh?

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    Quote Originally Posted by thefire1 View Post
    Assalaam-O-alaikum SDians

    HUmary mohtaram member @King Kong; say aik thread main baat kartay huway zikar nikla kay 'bachoon ki parwarish' tou socha kay iss per thoRii tuu tuu main main ho jaayain.

    waisay bhi baal bachay waalay members hain yahan jo kay humain apnay experience say aur jo shada shuda nahin hain woh doosroon kay experience say apni rayay say aagha karain gain....

    jahan tak mera taaluq hay main bhi apnay zaati experience share karoonga pittnay aur sudharnay waalay

    questions jo zehan main hain woh yeh hain:


    1. Kia waldain ko bachoon ko sudharnay kay liye unki pitayii karna zaroori hay?
    2. Kia school main teachers ka bachoon ko maarna 'justifiable' hay?
    3. Kia bachoon kay diloon main Abbu ka aur 'Bhahoo' ka khauf paida karnay say woh aap kay farmabardaar bann jaayain gain?
    4. Bachoon kay confidence ko high karnay kay liye kia kadam uthanay chayeh?
    5. Bachay ki zehnii tarbiyat aur amli tarbiyat kay liye parents kay khudh ka kirdaar kaisa hona chayeh?

    hmmm....
    Thread to kaafi acha hai g...
    main khud to itna kuch ni keh sakti...
    Bcz abhi mn khud choti c bchi hun....

    mgr hissa to daalna e hai na.....
    point no 1: Bachon ko sudhaarny k liye maar pitaai zaroori nahi....q ky maarny se bchy ky dil mn kuch deir ky liye khouf to paida hoga mgr aik tym aisa bhi aye ga ky usky dil mn se wo mohabat or ehtraam khtm ho jaye ga jo ky parents ky liye hona chahiye....or maar pitaai se aksar bachy zidd main aa kr or dheet ho jaaty hain...
    point no 2: school mn maar kutaai to chalti rehti hai...yh experience mera apna bhi hai...

    Mgr............aisa nai hona chahiye....teacher ka mtlb ilm sikhaany wala hota hy na ky dandy maarny wala....theek hy sakhti krni chahiye mgr aise nahi ky aap bchy ko maar maar ky uski haddiyan torr dein...jesa ky aaj kal ho raha hai....pichly dino bhi news mn sun'ny ko aya tha ky teachr ny bchy ki hath ki fingers tor di thein,,dandy ky istimaal se....
    point no 3: nahi...!!! jis tarahn maa ka rishta pyaar bhra hota hy...usi tarhan baap ka bhi....aksr maayein apny bachon ko draati hoti hain ky aaj apny abbu ko aany do mn tumhaari shikayat krun gi.....arry yaar...wo aadmi bhi tw baap hai bachy ka...koi khalaai makhlooq thori e hai...mgrr.....aik lehaaz se draana bhi chahiye....mgr itna nai..ky bcha abu chor ky usy apna dushman smjh bethy....
    ndddddd........baki do points ka mere paas koi khaas jwb ni...woh mn aap logon se e seekhun gi......



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    Thank you @Dolly; aap kay jawab note kar liye gayain hain.....




















































    inaam kay liye qur'aan daazi ki jaayay giii

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    Quote Originally Posted by King Kong View Post
    میں اپنا نقطہ نظر فارغ وقت میں تفصیل کے ساتھ بیان کرونگا،البتہ مختصر ایک جملہ کہوں گا۔

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    bohat khoob.

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    Wassalam yaar bohat khoob these issues are very common

    1. Kia waldain ko bachoon ko sudharnay kay liye unki pitayii karna zaroori hay?

    It depends on the situation..laikin mein against hoon iss tareeqe se...try to scold them firmly ..agar unki resistance barr rahi hai to pihr marein..laikin usually kids rebel more this way..so mein to kahoon ga ke take away their delight is a better effect.

    2. Kia school main teachers ka bachoon ko maarna 'justifiable' hay?

    Bilkul nahi because they take advantage this way from kids.

    3. Kia bachoon kay diloon main Abbu ka aur 'Bhahoo' lol - Bachoon ki Parwarish ka khauf paida karnay say woh aap kay farmabardaar bann jaayain gain?

    Hahaha temporarily laikin ..in other words until they are under u..pihr jo azaad honge wohi honge..baghi.

    4. Bachoon kay confidence ko high karnay kay liye kia kadam uthanay chayeh?

    Be open with them..let them share their thoughts and things with u..and u should speak to them kindly and araam se samjhae kia ghalut hai kia sahi hai..bajae getting angry right away...iss tarah woh logh confident rehte hein. Bold rehte hein sahi tareeqe se.

    5. Bachay ki zehnii tarbiyat aur amli tarbiyat kay liye parents kay khudh ka kirdaar kaisa hona chayeh?

    As they want their kids to be..waise hi hona chahye..warna bacha wohi krei ga jo deikhta hai apne samne..so meaning apne Deen par amal karein ge to hum khud ka kirdaar In sha ALlah acha ho ga..to bachei bhi In sha ALlah!

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    Quote Originally Posted by thefire1 View Post
    Assalaam-O-alaikum SDians

    HUmary mohtaram member @King Kong; say aik thread main baat kartay huway zikar nikla kay 'bachoon ki parwarish' tou socha kay iss per thoRii tuu tuu main main ho jaayain.

    waisay bhi baal bachay waalay members hain yahan jo kay humain apnay experience say aur jo shada shuda nahin hain woh doosroon kay experience say apni rayay say aagha karain gain....

    jahan tak mera taaluq hay main bhi apnay zaati experience share karoonga pittnay aur sudharnay waalay

    questions jo zehan main hain woh yeh hain:


    1. Kia waldain ko bachoon ko sudharnay kay liye unki pitayii karna zaroori hay?
    2. Kia school main teachers ka bachoon ko maarna 'justifiable' hay?
    3. Kia bachoon kay diloon main Abbu ka aur 'Bhahoo' ka khauf paida karnay say woh aap kay farmabardaar bann jaayain gain?
    4. Bachoon kay confidence ko high karnay kay liye kia kadam uthanay chayeh?
    5. Bachay ki zehnii tarbiyat aur amli tarbiyat kay liye parents kay khudh ka kirdaar kaisa hona chayeh?
    w sallamm


    paii jii abii tuu tuu ball bachhoon gaa doorr takk koi naamm o nishan nahin lihazaaa shadii shudaa membrann sayy rabitaa karr kayy sawab e darrainn hasill karainnn/up





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    Aap apni hi parwarish kay baaray main bata dain, uss say kia seekha, aur waldain nay kaisay parwarish kii aap kii, main chahta hoon kay sab hi participate karain yahan
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    w sallamm


    paii jii abii tuu tuu ball bachhoon gaa doorr takk koi naamm o nishan nahin lihazaaa shadii shudaa membrann sayy rabitaa karr kayy sawab e darrainn hasill karainnn/up

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    Quote Originally Posted by thefire1 View Post
    Thank you @Dolly; aap kay jawab note kar liye gayain hain.....




















































    inaam kay liye qur'aan daazi ki jaayay giii

    Jokes apart.... bohat hi achay jawab diye hain aap nay, hum dosray members kay bhi nazaryeh ko yahan dekhtay hain, phir aik comprehensive module banayain gain, taakay uss per amal karain
    haha.....
    g g zaroor..........

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    very good and matured response Chandbhai, will wait for few more replies...
    Quote Originally Posted by Chandbhai View Post
    Wassalam yaar bohat khoob these issues are very common

    1. Kia waldain ko bachoon ko sudharnay kay liye unki pitayii karna zaroori hay?

    It depends on the situation..laikin mein against hoon iss tareeqe se...try to scold them firmly ..agar unki resistance barr rahi hai to pihr marein..laikin usually kids rebel more this way..so mein to kahoon ga ke take away their delight is a better effect.

    2. Kia school main teachers ka bachoon ko maarna 'justifiable' hay?

    Bilkul nahi because they take advantage this way from kids.

    3. Kia bachoon kay diloon main Abbu ka aur 'Bhahoo' lol - Bachoon ki Parwarish ka khauf paida karnay say woh aap kay farmabardaar bann jaayain gain?

    Hahaha temporarily laikin ..in other words until they are under u..pihr jo azaad honge wohi honge..baghi.

    4. Bachoon kay confidence ko high karnay kay liye kia kadam uthanay chayeh?

    Be open with them..let them share their thoughts and things with u..and u should speak to them kindly and araam se samjhae kia ghalut hai kia sahi hai..bajae getting angry right away...iss tarah woh logh confident rehte hein. Bold rehte hein sahi tareeqe se.

    5. Bachay ki zehnii tarbiyat aur amli tarbiyat kay liye parents kay khudh ka kirdaar kaisa hona chayeh?

    As they want their kids to be..waise hi hona chahye..warna bacha wohi krei ga jo deikhta hai apne samne..so meaning apne Deen par amal karein ge to hum khud ka kirdaar In sha ALlah acha ho ga..to bachei bhi In sha ALlah!

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