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    snow Mohabbat Kadah Competition March 2014



    Sawal Yeh hai...


    "Kiya Age(Umar) main farq shadi shuda zindagi per asar andaz hota hai?" yanee agar larki bari ho or larka chota tu farq pare ga ? or agar larka kafi bara ho or larki kafi choti tu tab bhi kiya farq pare ga ?" apni raye ka izhar kijeye ...



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    Ehem ehem........
    Bari gal ae g.mere matlab ka sawal puch lia u ne............
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    Ye mera zaati tajurba hai k larka larki ki umr me farq honay se koi farq nahi parta...........Mere husband mujh se 2.5 years chotay hain.......Or ALHAMDULILLAH hamari boht achi understanding hai.....ham boht khush hain....
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    Zaati tor pe mera ye khayal hai k umr ka farq hona koi bari baat nahi....agar soch milti ho to umr k farq ko nazar andaz kia ja sakta hai......Hamaray Pyare Nabi....صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ne b 25 sal ki umr me 40 sala HAzrat Khadija se shadi kar k ye sabit kar dia hai k bari umr ki orat se shadi karne me koi harj nahi.....Or larka b agar zeyada bara ho to is se b koi farq nahi parta...han jo Ghir mamuli farq hai usko zarur madd.e.nazar rakhna chahye...yani 20 sal ki larki ki shadi 30,35 sal k larke se to ho sakti hai 50,60 sal k admi se nahi......wo isliye k larki jaldi bewa ho jati hai or uski zindgi khrab ho jati hai....
    Last edited by Amna Rani; 02-03-2014 at 04:44 PM. Reason: dictation problem....!
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    w.slam
    nice question...asal men faraq umar ka nai zehni hum ahangi ka hota hai or english ki aik term father fixation men larrkian amuman apne baap ki umar k mardon ko idealise kerti hen lashaoori tor pe unhen apna baap hero lagta hai or agar is ki mazeed tahen kholi jain tu bap b isliye hero lagta hai k us se ap ki zehni hum ahangi hoti hai or dusra shayed meturity b wajah ho sakti hai...ab ati hun islamic point of view or larrki k barra hone ki taraf tu hamare nabi(S.A.W) ne jab hazrat khadija se shadi ki to wo tab un se 8 saal barri thin.
    last point hai ishq na puchay zaat,na wekhe takht,na wekhe taj

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    Quote Originally Posted by shazia rana View Post
    w.slam
    nice question...asal men faraq umar ka nai zehni hum ahangi ka hota hai or english ki aik term father fixation men larrkian amuman apne baap ki umar k mardon ko idealise kerti hen lashaoori tor pe unhen apna baap hero lagta hai or agar is ki mazeed tahen kholi jain tu bap b isliye hero lagta hai k us se ap ki zehni hum ahangi hoti hai or dusra shayed meturity b wajah ho sakti hai...ab ati hun islamic point of view or larrki k barra hone ki taraf tu hamare nabi(S.A.W) ne jab hazrat khadija se shadi ki to wo tab un se 8 saal barri thin.
    last point hai ishq na puchay zaat,na wekhe takht,na wekhe taj
    Bari achi baat kahi leekain please aik correction kar lain shaid kay waqat Hazrat Muhammad ( Peace be upon Him) was 25 and Hazrat Khadija RA was 40 years old.

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    mairay khiyal main larka ko kum uz kum 5 7 saal bara hona chahiye keonkah shadi key baad larki bari jaldi borhi aur bari umar key lagnay lagti hay aur mard to rahta he jawan hay Phir loog larki ko aunty kah kar chairtay hain
    Last edited by sannan; 05-03-2014 at 01:24 PM.

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    waisay aapus key baat main nay choti umar main shadi shuda logoon ko bari chachoori harkatain kartay daikha hay jaisay dosroon kay samnay hath pakarna aik dosray ka maani khaiz nigahoon say saikhna especially agar larka choti umar ka ya hum umar ho , donoon shokheon key hadood ko cross kar laitay hain ...... A man must be mature

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    Quote Originally Posted by sannan View Post


    Bari achi baat kahi leekain please aik correction kar lain shaid kay waqat Hazrat Muhammad ( Peace be upon Him) was 25 and Hazrat Khadija RA was 40 years old.
    ap ko tu wese e koi beemari hai mujh men naqs nikalne ki mtlb tu phir b wohi hua k wo barri thin

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    Quote Originally Posted by shazia rana View Post

    ap ko tu wese e koi beemari hai mujh men naqs nikalne ki mtlb tu phir b wohi hua k wo barri thin
    yah aik buhat bari ghalti thi aur woh bhi

    waisay main nay aap main nuqad naheen aap key maloomat main nuqas nikala hay agar bura laga hay tou ....................................... lagta rahay main baaz naheen aaon ga

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    Wa Alaikum aslam!

    "Kiya Age(Umar) main farq shadi shuda zindagi per asar andaz hota hai?" yanee agar larki bari ho or larka chota tu farq pare ga ? or agar larka kafi bara ho or larki kafi choti tu tab bhi kiya farq pare ga ?"

    Islami tasawwur k mutabik:

    Jahan tak Islami nazriye ka tauluk hai nikkah k liye umer ka farq maini nhi rakhta bashart ye k baham raza mandi shamil ho. Is mai koi qabahat nhi. Jis ki misaal Rasol e Aqdas izzat e ma'ab S.A.W ne amli tor per di. Aap S.A.W ka nikkah jab Hazrat Khadija tul Kubra R.A se hoa to ap S.A.W ki umer sirf 25 saal jb k Hazrat Khadija R.A ki 40 saal thi.
    Dosri traf jab Hazrat Ayesha R.A ka nikkah jb Aap S.A.W se hoa to unki umer sirf 6 saal or rukhsati k waqt ghalban 9 saal thi. Is se sabat ho jata hai k nikkah k liye umer ka farq maini nhi rakhta.
    Lekin zyada pasand yehi kia gaya k dono taqreeban hum umer hon ya larki ki kuch km umer ho ,mazrat k sath is zaman mai hadees yaad nhi theek se.
    Or agar ap hmary maushry ki baat krti hain to yahan b umer ka farq koi qabahat nhi magar zyada ter aisa hota hai k larki ki raza shamil krna zrori nhi smja jata khas kr qabaili ilaqa jat main jo intehayi na munasib amal hai. punjab mai b boht se log dolat ya jaidad k lalach mai aisi ziyadti k murtakib hoty hain.

    Tasawwur e Nafsiyat:
    Is bary mai Pscycological research ka kehna hai k larkiyan larkon se jald mature ho jati hain ,yani larkian 9 saal or larke 15 saal k ho kr mature hoty hain lehaza aise couples jin mai larki ki age larke se 6 saal km ho to wo aik ideal zindagi guzarte hain.
    Lekin agar umer ka farq boht zyada ho to understanding kam or compromise zyada krna parta hai.
    Last edited by Arosa Hya; 05-03-2014 at 02:26 PM. Reason: font size

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    Quote Originally Posted by sannan View Post
    mairay khiyal main larka ko kum uz kum 5 7 saal bara hona chahiye keonkah shadi key baad larki bari jaldi borhi aur bari umar key lagnay lagti hay aur mard to rahta he jawan hay Phir loog larki ko aunty kah kar chairtay hain

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