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    exclaim Sawal

    Asalam.o.Alaikum

    mujhe aik sawal pochna hia agar kiisi ko is bare main malomat hia tu bataye..

    "kia larki ki shadi karne tak maa baap hajj umrah naih karskty ? kia unko gunah hota hai jab tak wo uski shadi na karde or hajj umrah karle ? kia aise koi hades hai ?"

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    Assalaam o alaikum

    Dekhye agar shadi layiq beti hay tou behtar Yeh hay kay apnay iss farz ko poora karain phir hajj ada karain... Waisay main naya Koi aisi hadees nahin suni jis main iss baat ka mana kia gaya how kay pehlay beti ki shadi karo....

    Balkay main nay tou bohat say aisay parents dekhain hain jo apni beti kay rishtay kii dua kii niyat say Hajj aur umra ada kartay hain..

    Bas istitayat kii baat hay.

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    aisa na Quran main kahi likha hai na hadees say sabit hai ....yeh sirf hamray han ka reewaj ban gaya hai kay dunia jahan kay faraiz khas toor par bachoun ki shadi kar kay phir Hujj ada karian warna hujj qabool nahi hoga............
    apni jawani dunia kay kamo main laga kay burhpa Allah ki ibadat k leye reserve rakhtay hian ham ...Allah ko jawani ki ibadat zaida pasand hai ...

    main jub Omrah gai the to aisay borhay pakistani deekhye they jo na sahi say chal saktay na kisi cheez ka pata tha bus akhri waqat ham Allah ko day deytay hian :---(
    main nay apni aik islamic teacher say bhi yehi poucha tha k itnay borhay pakistani deekhye vohan ....to unho nay kaha kay baki mulko main aisa nahi hota yeh sirf hamrah han k logo nay rewaj bana lia hai ...buhat say mulko main young couple in faraiz ko pehlay ada kartay hian ...

    kal kis nay dekha hai ? humhay aglay lamhay ka bhi nahi pata hota ham zinda reh sakian gay k nahi ...Hujj bhi jitni jaldi ho sakye istatatt hai to ada kar lena or dunia kay kamo ki zimmadari Allah khud sanbhaal leytay hian :rose

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    Quote Originally Posted by thefire1 View Post
    Assalaam o alaikum

    Dekhye agar shadi layiq beti hay tou behtar Yeh hay kay apnay iss farz ko poora karain phir hajj ada karain... Waisay main naya Koi aisi hadees nahin suni jis main iss baat ka mana kia gaya how kay pehlay beti ki shadi karo....

    Balkay main nay tou bohat say aisay parents dekhain hain jo apni beti kay rishtay kii dua kii niyat say Hajj aur umra ada kartay hain..

    Bas istitayat kii baat hay.

    walaikum aasalam

    ji jabhi tu main aj pareshan hogaye sun kar k hamare naam nihad musalmano ne is chez ko gunah he bana dya hai hairet hoti hai bhot

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aanchal View Post
    aisa na Quran main kahi likha hai na hadees say sabit hai ....yeh sirf hamray han ka reewaj ban gaya hai kay dunia jahan kay faraiz khas toor par bachoun ki shadi kar kay phir Hujj ada karian warna hujj qabool nahi hoga............
    apni jawani dunia kay kamo main laga kay burhpa Allah ki ibadat k leye reserve rakhtay hian ham ...Allah ko jawani ki ibadat zaida pasand hai ...

    main jub Omrah gai the to aisay borhay pakistani deekhye they jo na sahi say chal saktay na kisi cheez ka pata tha bus akhri waqat ham Allah ko day deytay hian :---(
    main nay apni aik islamic teacher say bhi yehi poucha tha k itnay borhay pakistani deekhye vohan ....to unho nay kaha kay baki mulko main aisa nahi hota yeh sirf hamrah han k logo nay rewaj bana lia hai ...buhat say mulko main young couple in faraiz ko pehlay ada kartay hian ...

    kal kis nay dekha hai ? humhay aglay lamhay ka bhi nahi pata hota ham zinda reh sakian gay k nahi ...Hujj bhi jitni jaldi ho sakye istatatt hai to ada kar lena or dunia kay kamo ki zimmadari Allah khud sanbhaal leytay hian :rose

    ji jis se meri aj baat hue hia usne bhot confidence se kha hai yeh..maine kha bhai hadis ki rooh se baat karo mjh se mjhe hadis dikhao ..jhoty jhoty boley jaye tv main dekha yeh wo..maine kha b k aise naih kehna chahye hum kaun hotey hain kisi ko gunah sawab ka kehne wale...jis ki istat hoti hai wo krta hia jis ki istat ho b tab b ALlah kuch ko bulaana pasand naih karta wo aaik alag chez hai..jo k hum nahi samjh skty...manne ko tiyar he nahi thi yaar maine he kehdya k acha bhia sahi hai app ne tu chup hona naih hai main nai is conversation ka hissa bun skti jis ki koi rooh nahi koi asliyat nahi...kehti k hum ne tu suna he hia hamesha maine kha suni sunaye ko hadis nahi kha jata...yeh aik bhot bari baat hoti hia.

    isi baat per Nabi Pak ne kha k hai meri hadisain khud se na mansoob karo..aise he kuch parha tha maine k apni taraf se hadis naih banane chahye...

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    Walikum Assalam

    maine aisa na kuch parha hai na hi suna hai k gunah hota hai .. wahan tu bare se bare gunah maaf hojate hian tu fir yeh baat koi kaise kar sakta hai? Jab shadi ko Allah ne farz nahi kia tu fir Hajj karne wale k khate mai gunah ku dale ga bhala?

    us ko kehna tha konse program mai dekha hai bhai or kon sa molvi keh rha tha yeh tu batao

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aanchal View Post
    aisa na Quran main kahi likha hai na hadees say sabit hai ....yeh sirf hamray han ka reewaj ban gaya hai kay dunia jahan kay faraiz khas toor par bachoun ki shadi kar kay phir Hujj ada karian warna hujj qabool nahi hoga............
    apni jawani dunia kay kamo main laga kay burhpa Allah ki ibadat k leye reserve rakhtay hian ham ...Allah ko jawani ki ibadat zaida pasand hai ...

    main jub Omrah gai the to aisay borhay pakistani deekhye they jo na sahi say chal saktay na kisi cheez ka pata tha bus akhri waqat ham Allah ko day deytay hian :---(
    main nay apni aik islamic teacher say bhi yehi poucha tha k itnay borhay pakistani deekhye vohan ....to unho nay kaha kay baki mulko main aisa nahi hota yeh sirf hamrah han k logo nay rewaj bana lia hai ...buhat say mulko main young couple in faraiz ko pehlay ada kartay hian ...

    kal kis nay dekha hai ? humhay aglay lamhay ka bhi nahi pata hota ham zinda reh sakian gay k nahi ...Hujj bhi jitni jaldi ho sakye istatatt hai to ada kar lena or dunia kay kamo ki zimmadari Allah khud sanbhaal leytay hian :rose
    haan sahi baat hai .. or safa marwa ki tu reeer mari hoti hai logon ne .. wheel chair pe beth k jo bhag rhe hote hain uff 10 min mai khtm chakar

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    Wa alaikum assalam

    Beti k nikkah ka farz ada krna drasal hajj e ka'aba ada krny k sawab k braber hai ... shayad isy ghalat interpret kia ho
    aisa koi hadees nhi parhi mai ne jis mai aisa kuch kaha ho...
    phly ye btayen ye swal kahan se aya?

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    Pata nahi yeh aye din ajeebo gareeb kisam k sawal ya Fatawy kahan se aa jate hain yeh tu sunay mai hi bara ajeeb lagta hai wahan jab jao na tu yaqeen kare wo hai na kisi arbi ko kisi ajmi per... Kisi gorahy ko kisi kally per koi bartari nahi wohan waiqya wohi mamla hai wohan koi bora nahi koi jawan nahi koi mard o aurat ki tafreeq nahi wohan sab aik hi saf mai hain tu yeh tu boht choti si baat hai k beti k hote hajj nahi kar sakty wohan tu log jawan beti ko shadi se pahle hajj karne le kar ate
    Asal mai yeh baat hi mere damag mai thaaa kar k lagi hai is liye shiydh mau answer b theek se nahi kar pa rahi

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    Walaikum Assalam aisa hargiz nhi hai agar sahib istitat hai koi toe phr usi waqt hajj ya umrah karey.. for example Islam ke 5 farz hain UN main se aik ye bhi hai beti ki shadi uski zimedari zaroor hai par hajj ki ahmiat zyada hai

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