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    candel "Killing Your Ego"


    Hope sab fine hon gey, INSHAALLAH.
    Aap sab logo ki help chaiye, aik sawal ka jawab chiaye.
    Ego ko kaisay khatam kiya jata hai????
    Pehlay mein Ego aur Self-Respect mein farq bata doun, kyon ke kuch dost Ego ko Self-Respect samjh letay hein.
    Ego=Anaa.
    Self-Respect=Izate-Nafs.
    Is misal se kuch baat aur wazeye ho jaye gi ke.
    Ego=Gharoor hota hai jo kehta hai mein HE hoon.
    Self-Respect=Fakhar, jo kehta hai mein BHI hoon.
    So, yeh aik wazeye farq hai, ise liye baat samjhnay mein asani ho gi.
    Ana-Parast insan jhukta nahi, dheet hota hai, khud ko sahi aur dosron ko ghalat samjhta hai, tareef per khush hota hai aur tanqeed per naraz, dosron se jealous bhi hota hai, etc etc.
    Ab please aap ne SIRF yeh batana hai ke Ego ko KHATAM kaisay kiya jaata hai??
    How can I get rid of it??
    Please zaroor bataye ga.

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    Default Re: "Killing Your Ego"

    w.salam

    sabse pehle to i appreciate, ke ap ego aur self respect mai farq janti ho aur perhne walo ko clear bhi kardia. isliy uski depth mai jane ki zerurat nahi hay.
    Now coming to point.. lets be clear about it k ego khatm karne ki stage hoti hay,maine isko study kia hay isliy thora boht janta hun. Mere nazdeek,iska sabse best solution ye hay ke khud se neeche wale logo ko dekhen, matlb agar ap ke pas kuch expensive hay to ap unko dekhye jo us chez ko afford nahi kar sakte. Dil me dosro ke liy dard hoga to ego apne aap kam ho jaegi.. jiski "child companies" hain, jealousy, hate etc etc.
    Another way is to educate ur self,read famous and impressive quotes, like some 1 said,
    "mujhe dosre number par aana acha lagta hay, kyon ke agar mei pehle number per aya to mujhmei improvise karne ki chahat khatam hojaegi"

    Ego waha paida hoti hay jaha ap khud ko sab kuch smjhne lgte hain, as i said, Educate ur self, ke sabkuch kar sakna ye perfect hona sirf Allah ki zaat se mansub hay, jo ham ne aj kia hay, kal koi aur hamse acha karlega. nothing remains forever, isliy apni Ana mei rehna ke sirf mai hi kar sakta hun, aur koi nahi, aise hi hay jaise you are the only person alive.
    History perhye, Ego mei rehne walo ke sath kia hoa, aur unhone dosro ke sath kia kardia jiska unhe andaza nahi.

    so ye kuch key points hain . hope it helps.

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    WALAIKUM ASSALAM hijab sis

    hmmmm farq to app ney btta dia bht acha laga

    jahan tak baat hai ego khtam kerney ki to

    i think jab ap khud ko sab kuch smajhney lagain to bass itna yad rakhain k perfect hona insan k bas ki baat nahi hai koi bhe insan her cheez main perfect nahi hota

    or me ko nai ptta kbhi socha nahi is barey main
    394999 198367593589296 174133136012742 401622 1270652005 n large - "Killing Your Ego"
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    W.salam Hijab .. khush rahain

    Aik khoobsoorat topic ,, jo shayad bahout zuroori bhi hai .. jis ko distinguished kerna ziydah zuroori hai .. jahan tuk mera khayaal hai Ego ,, duur kernay ka behter tareeqa yeh hai k apna social circle berhaya jaiey..don't need to be social .. laken yeh zuroori hai ..kiu k jub hum dosoron ki probs dekhtey hain .. dosron ki achaiyaan .. unko handle kernay k guttts yeh sab count hota hai ... and as Killer Jee said ..aur Aik Hadees bhi hai ..
    " Deen main APney se Uper Aur Duniya main Apney neechay waloon ko dekho "
    to is se maqsad nikaalna aur bhi asaan hai k ... If REcite our teachings og Islam Daily And Practice Them Daily .. to Yeh Probs bhi Nahi hongi .. aur ager yeh adat apnay main daalni hai to isko shuru kerni ki behtereen jagah hamaray apnay gher hain..apni siblings ko saath leker chalna , Waldain ko izzat o muqaam dena.. ager mujhse aik line main poocha jaiey k isko the end kersay kerna hai to .. apnay experiance se sirf yehi keh sakti hoon...
    " Value Your Relations ... And Get The Reward "
    Hope k kuch to sahi kaha hi hoga ..
    Sach Hai, Baja Hai ,Mujhsey Shikayat Janab Ki
    Seh Seh K Mainey Zulm,Hai Adat Kharab Ki

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    Quote Originally Posted by Killer View Post
    w.salam

    sabse pehle to i appreciate, ke ap ego aur self respect mai farq janti ho aur perhne walo ko clear bhi kardia. isliy uski depth mai jane ki zerurat nahi hay.
    Now coming to point.. lets be clear about it k ego khatm karne ki stage hoti hay,maine isko study kia hay isliy thora boht janta hun. Mere nazdeek,iska sabse best solution ye hay ke khud se neeche wale logo ko dekhen, matlb agar ap ke pas kuch expensive hay to ap unko dekhye jo us chez ko afford nahi kar sakte. Dil me dosro ke liy dard hoga to ego apne aap kam ho jaegi.. jiski "child companies" hain, jealousy, hate etc etc.
    Another way is to educate ur self,read famous and impressive quotes, like some 1 said,
    "mujhe dosre number par aana acha lagta hay, kyon ke agar mei pehle number per aya to mujhmei improvise karne ki chahat khatam hojaegi"

    Ego waha paida hoti hay jaha ap khud ko sab kuch smjhne lgte hain, as i said, Educate ur self, ke sabkuch kar sakna ye perfect hona sirf Allah ki zaat se mansub hay, jo ham ne aj kia hay, kal koi aur hamse acha karlega. nothing remains forever, isliy apni Ana mei rehna ke sirf mai hi kar sakta hun, aur koi nahi, aise hi hay jaise you are the only person alive.
    History perhye, Ego mei rehne walo ke sath kia hoa, aur unhone dosro ke sath kia kardia jiska unhe andaza nahi.

    so ye kuch key points hain . hope it helps.
    bahout khoob kaha Killer jee
    Read The History And Get The Lesson ... mysmilie 285 - "Killing Your Ego"
    Sach Hai, Baja Hai ,Mujhsey Shikayat Janab Ki
    Seh Seh K Mainey Zulm,Hai Adat Kharab Ki

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    Quote Originally Posted by ~p@r!~ View Post
    WALAIKUM ASSALAM hijab sis


    hmmmm farq to app ney btta dia bht acha laga

    jahan tak baat hai ego khtam kerney ki to

    i think jab ap khud ko sab kuch smajhney lagain to bass itna yad rakhain k perfect hona insan k bas ki baat nahi hai koi bhe insan her cheez main perfect nahi hota


    or me ko nai ptta kbhi socha nahi is barey main
    chalo aaj se is baray main zuroor sochna ...mysmilie 285 - "Killing Your Ego"
    Gud To Know..mysmilie 285 - "Killing Your Ego"
    Sach Hai, Baja Hai ,Mujhsey Shikayat Janab Ki
    Seh Seh K Mainey Zulm,Hai Adat Kharab Ki

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saffroni View Post
    chalo aaj se is baray main zuroor sochna ...mysmilie 285 - "Killing Your Ego"
    Gud To Know..mysmilie 285 - "Killing Your Ego"
    han zarur try karun gi
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    Default Re: "Killing Your Ego"

    hmm sub ne bohat ache se explain kardiya hai i think

    and thanks for asking this question

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