~~Badlta Hua Culture ~~

[Bheegi-Palkain]

Assalam_O_Alikum WR WB ,

Umeed hay sab sathi , ba izzat khyriyat sy ho gy tamaam sathiyo k waldain ko bhi salmz aur dua ka bhi kahya ga .

""Mashara! badlta hua waqt , badlty hui log , aur badlta hua mashra .. jo Pakistan ko jhaan tarqee ki traf lay jaa rha hy wha burai sab sy ziyada janum lay rahi hy .

Mojooda dor mai larko aur larkiyo nay jo Mashray ko tabha karna shuru kya hay us k halat aglay 10 salo mai bhot jald nazar ay gy jab hum logo ki ulaadain samny ay gi . Is waqt agr dekha jay aur agr SD ki baat ki jay to hum mai mostly members asy hy jo k umar k us hisay mai hay jhaan aglay chand salo mai hum mai sy aik aik kar k apni apni zindagee mai gum ho jay ga , Nokreeiya ho gi , Shadiya hngi aur phir biwi bachay ya shor aur bachay .. phir shyad SD hamary liya aik afsana aur yha k sathi jo bhi hy aik khaani ki surat mai hamary zahno mai rahy gy ya chand yaado ki trha jab jab hum suna kary gy kisi aur sy hum nam logo sy to SD k ya Net ka chand log hamain yaad ay gy , Like agr mai Rashid ka naam sunta hoon , ya kisi bhi larki ka , to khayal ay ga k fala shaks bhi net mai tha .

Itni taizi sy badlta hua waqt shayd hum bhi sambhlay mai kamyab nahi ho rahy hy ... misal k tor per Mother's Day .. Valentines Day , labor Day , Father's Day , ya asy hi mazeed thawar jo hamray Mashary ko deemak ki trha kha rahy hay .

Mujhy afsoos hay k logo mai is ka rujhan barhta jaa rha hay aur un logo mai jo ya janaty hy k ya Rujhan Western Culture sy aya hay phir bhi hum un sy ziyada in tahwaro ko ahmiyat dey rahy hy , mai nay aaj tak kisi jagha , kisi forum mai ya nahi dekha k kisi angrayz nay ya kha ho k aaj Eid Day hay so Celebrate , aaj Ramzan ka month hy So Celebrate , laykin hum log mana tay hay .

Ya sab kiya hy ? is ki haqeeqat kya hay ? agr Enjoyment hay to asy enjoyment kuo hy k aanai wali naslain tabha ho ? agr haqeeqat hy ya to hum nay kuo is ko apnay ander shamil kar liya hay ?

Kya Mother;s Day ki haqeeqat sy aap waqif nahi hy ? ya aap ny ankhain band ki hui hy ? Western Culture ya Europe Culture zaroori hy k hum apnay ?

Angraayzo nay ya din jo hy is liya banya jata hay k wo jasy hi dekhty hy k wo apnay Parents ko nahi sambhal saktay , to wo Old House mai chor aatay hay , aur phir Saal mai aik din unhoo nay bana liya k is din hum saray kaam chor kar apnay Parents sy chand lamhay mil lay gy ...

Yahi haal Father's Day ka bhi hay ... jab burhay buzrg gharo sy nikal diya jatay hay to unko saal mai aik baar ya yaad dila na khud ko aur unko bhi k hum aap ki ulad hay aur aap hamary waldian .

Valentins Day ka bhi yahi hy k apnay mahboob chay wo Mangyter ho ya shor ho , mai BF ki ya GF ki baat hi nahi karu ga kuo k ya rishta hi Ganda hay . kya apa smajhty hy k hamari muhbatain chand lamho aur chan dino k liya hi rah gai hy ?

Kya hum apny maa baap ko her roz pyaar nahi karty hy ? Kya hum apni maa ko her pal khidmat nahi karty ? unko nahi dekhty ? to Mother's Day ka concept hamary beach kuo aarha hay ? aur us ko hum log kuo barha rahy hy ?

Aik lamhy k liya aap sab sochiya ... just aik lmhy k liya .. aaj hum in dino ko mana rahy hay , apni entertaiment k liya , apnay shoq k liya ya samjh lay aik mashary mai advance banay k liya ... aaj hum mana rahy hy , kal aap ki apni ulaad aap ko agr Old House chor ay aur saal mai aik baar milnay ay to aap ka kya haal ho ga ? Kabhi haqeeqat ko bhi dekhya , kal aap apni ulado ko ya nahi kha saky gy k beta hum aap k buzurg hy ya kya sal mai aik baar hi pyaar jita tay ho ... tab aap ka zmaeer aap ko khy ga k wo din bhool gay jab tum khud is daldal mai aarhay thy janty bujhty k ya sab sahi nahi .. to aaj kuo udas ho ?

Hayrat hoti hy mujhy .... kya mai bhot bakword ho gya hoon ? ya aap log bhot aagy nikal gay ho .. (aap logo sy murad pura mashra ) ya hum nahi roky gy to kon roky ga ?

Mazhab Islam ya hamarry mahsray mai muhbat , izzat , aik din k liya muheet hi nahi hay , hamaray mahsray mai , hamary din mai her lamha muhbat ka hay .. apni ulad sy muhbat , apnay waldain sy , apnay shor sy , apny parosio sy , dosto sy ,

Kya aap samjhty hy k aap k parents nay kabhi ya sikhya ho k beta aaj Valentines Day hay , Beta aaj Father Day hay , Beta aaj Mother Day hy , kabhi nahi ,,, hamehsa yahi sikhya ho ga k beta Ramzan aarhy hay tayari karo , Beta Eid aani wali hay ,

To jab hamary buzurgo nay hamain ya nahi sikhya hay to aap kuo us rasty mai jaa rahy ho ? Aaj hum is ko entertaiment samjh kar bana rahy hy kal hamari hi naslain isko Farz samjh laygi ... tab hum kya jawab dey gy ?

Aap aik lamhy k liya apnay aap ko aagy lay jay 20 saal k liya , 20 saal baad mai aap sy milta hoon aur khata hoon k Aaj Father's Day hay aur aaj mery bachay mujh say milnay ay gy ya mujhy aaj time dey gy , aap khud emndaree sy batya aap logo k upar kya beetay gi ?

Kya ap mujhy ya khy gy wowwwwwww mubarak ho zia , ?
ya aap ya khy gy k zia ya sab kya ho gya hay ? kasy ulad hay k saal mai aik baar baap ka khayal aya ?

Tab agr mai sacha ho ga to yahi khonga k yaar hum bhi shok shok mai manatay thay bus aaj hum per haqeeqat tari hy .

Hum unko blame nahi kar skatay , kuo k jo Boy gy wo to katay gy bhi ..

Ya Mashara , aaj hamary hatho mai hy , ya mashra aaj , Dreamer, Zain , BP , Naz , Dua , Zaib jo jo bhi hay hamary sathi unky hatho mai hy , hamary waldain to jee liya , unki zindagee ki shaam ho chuki hay , kab kis waqt andhera ho jay na aap ko pata hy na mujhy pata hay , Kal ka sochiya jo kal sawera hamaray liya hona hy us mai kya ho ga ?

Muhbat , Izzat , Parents, Children , Dost , ya asaasa hamary liya , hamary deen mai , hamaray masharay mai aik din k liya nahi hay , ya hamaray liya jab tak hamaray saath hy jab tak hamari sansai hay .

Masharay ki badlti hui bachani ko , nafrto ko, hum nay rokna hay , hum nay kharay hona hay , Kal ko agr hamari Ulad hamain khy k baba ya mama Parents day hay to hum nay unko skht alfazo mai sikhna hy k beta PBUH nay aik din nahi rakha , Islam nay din raat waldian ko pyaar karnay aur khidmat karnay ka hukum diya hay .

Is cheez ko hum nay khatam karna hay , hum hi aakhri kari rah gy hy , agr ya kari toooth gai to yaqeen mania kal sab ki ankho mai ashk honay hay .

FeamnAllah
Zia

[naz]

walaikum salam

aik din ke liye waldain ki mohabbat nahi hai yeh aik haqeqat hai...leken zara hamain yeh bhi tu batayian na ke hamara apna koi mashra hai ? hum teh tur teh gaar chuke hian...yaha Mother`s day celebrate kar rahe hian..iska matlab yeh nahi hia ke hum sirf aik din parents ko mohbat or ahmiyat de rahe hian...aisa qateen nahi hai..or na he hosakta hai...her din tu aisa nahi hota ke gifts diye jaye...tu agar aik din ya is se zaida days main ap gifts de rahe hian parents ko tu is main koi buriye meri nazar main nahi hain...haan yeh sach hai ke Magrab main yeh din jis andaza main manaya jata hai wo app bata chuke hain...ab aisa hamare mashrey main bhi hota hia....bhot se falahi idarey bhur chuke hian...burhe logo se...leken hum her giz her giz yeh soch ker yeh din celebrate nahi kar rahe...maa baap ki izaat hum per marte dum tak farz hai...in per hamari jaan maal qurban...leken yeh kehna ke agey chal kar ap ke bache ap se milne aye tu yeh ghalat hai...Panchon ungliyan barabur nahi hoti...han yeh sach hai ke islam main is ka koi jawaz nahi hia...leekn yeh koi buriye nahi hia....buriye tu valentine day main hia...jo bare fakher se sub celebrate karte hain...leken asal main agar dekha jaye tu aagar main valentine day manao gi tu apni maa ke sath he ke mujhe in se mohbt hai apne frnds ke sath ke mujhe in se mohb hai...buriye her chez main humne khud paida ki hia....

[naz]

baat hai bus samjhne ki...her koi apni apni samaj se sochta hai or kehta or karta hai.

[Bheegi-Palkain]

walaikum salam

aik din ke liye waldain ki mohabbat nahi hai yeh aik haqeqat hai...leken zara hamain yeh bhi tu batayian na ke hamara apna koi mashra hai ? hum teh tur teh gaar chuke hian...yaha Mother`s day celebrate kar rahe hian..iska matlab yeh nahi hia ke hum sirf aik din parents ko mohbat or ahmiyat de rahe hian...aisa qateen nahi hai..or na he hosakta hai...her din tu aisa nahi hota ke gifts diye jaye...tu agar aik din ya is se zaida days main ap gifts de rahe hian parents ko tu is main koi buriye meri nazar main nahi hain...haan yeh sach hai ke Magrab main yeh din jis andaza main manaya jata hai wo app bata chuke hain...ab aisa hamare mashrey main bhi hota hia....bhot se falahi idarey bhur chuke hian...burhe logo se...leken hum her giz her giz yeh soch ker yeh din celebrate nahi kar rahe...maa baap ki izaat hum per marte dum tak farz hai...in per hamari jaan maal qurban...leken yeh kehna ke agey chal kar ap ke bache ap se milne aye tu yeh ghalat hai...Panchon ungliyan barabur nahi hoti...han yeh sach hai ke islam main is ka koi jawaz nahi hia...leekn yeh koi buriye nahi hia....buriye tu valentine day main hia...jo bare fakher se sub celebrate karte hain...leken asal main agar dekha jaye tu aagar main valentine day manao gi tu apni maa ke sath he ke mujhe in se mohbt hai apne frnds ke sath ke mujhe in se mohb hai...buriye her chez main humne khud paida ki hia....

Assalam-o-Alikum WR WB ,

Naz ! yahi baat mai nay kahi hy k Mashara ... mashara hum say hi banta hay agr her shaks yahi dawa karnay lagy k mashry ka pahly hal kon sa acha hay to phir Mashray mai jo aaj bachani hay wo kabhi bhi khatam nahi ho gi . us ko khatam kon kary ga ? aap bata dijya ... zahir hy aap nay karni hay , mai nay karni hay , dosry logo nay karni hy , koi dubra nabi to nahi ay ga jo hum is soch mai mashra chor dey k koi dosra sahi karay ga .

Waldain ki muhbat per jo aap nay apna qalam band kiya hay us sy mai agree hoon k hamari jaan tak qurban , per kya gift deyna ya muhbat ka izhar karna aik khas din mai hi rah gya hy ? aur zaroori hay usi din dey jab ya din asiyo ki soch ki aksai karta hy ? Aap eid roz kuo nahi mana ti hy ? aap Rozay roz kuo nahi rakhti hy ? zahir hay aap ka jawab yahi ho ga k Islam nay aik zabta tay kar diya hay us sy hum bahir bhi nahi ho sakty , asy hi ya din hay aap ko maloom hay non muslims itni shoq sy nahi mana tay jitna hum mana rahy ho tay hy aur wo hamain stupid khty hy , hanstay hy ya khty hui k ya culture hamara apna bathy hy jis sy hum nay jaan chura li hay .

Mera hargiz Irada SD per Mother,s Day ka nahi tha , agr asa hota to mai jhan jhan Mothers day k competition ho rahy hy wha mai hisa na lyta , ya mai against hota , is waqt mai aur aap puray Mashray ki baat kar rahy hy , yha nahi hota to kisi dosri jagha hota , kya aap ko ya sahi lagta hy ? aap nay kha k 5 fingers are not equal , per hum yha tadaad ki baat kar rahy hy , aap nay ya soch nahi rakhi , mai nay nahi rakhi , per dosro ka kya hay , 5 mai sy 2 kum hui na baki 3 ka kya hua ? wo to shamil hui aur dukh k wo hamary apnay hi ho gy .

Hamari muhbat ka izhar aik din , chand gifts per nahi hota hay , yahi to hamari shaan hay , hamara mashraqee husun yahi to hy , k hum log muhbat ko bina tolay karty hy aur bay panha karty hy chay wo dost ho , bhai bhan ho ya ma bap ho ya shor ya biwi ho , per is ko zang lag rha hay , aur is mai zang laganay walay hum hi hay ,

Valentines ki baat ki aap nay , aap apni mama dosto sy muhbat ka izhar kar skati hay per agr aap aik khas din ko pakar lay aur ya janty hui k iski history mother sey muhbat ki nahi hy , dost sy muhbat ki nahi hy , Mahboob sy muhbat ki hay .

Mai nahi samjhta k hum aik khas waqt , aik khas din k liya rah gay hay , Socity aur Islam ya hamain ijazat nahi deyta hay , agr aap Socity ko bhi lay to aaj bhi aap ko aik nahi bhot ghar asy milay gy jhaan ya acha nahi samjha jata hay bashrtya wo gharnay aqal mand ho .

Aap nay last mai aik baat kahi , k her aik ki apni soch hay ya baat us waqt her shaks k moon sy sunay ko milti hay jab wo haqeeqato ko tasleem nahi karna chata hay . aur jaan churnay ya apnay ander ki baat ko dabnay k liya is ka shara layta hay k apni apni soch hy .

Mai zateet tajurby sy agr kaho , to meri dosti na sirf bahir balky pakistan mai bhi non muslims mai rahi , aap karachi sy hy aap janti hy k Hindu aur dosry mazahb hay aur mai khud in mai bhot aagy tak rha , yahi batain karta tha , kMother day hua to wo mana rha hoon , Holi ai to Hydrabad jata , Chrtmes mana ta , valentines mana ta , Music sunta , khud Guitar bajta tha , aur logo ko tajub hota tha k mai SA mai rhta hoon to mai yahi khata tha yaar apni soch ki baat hay , aur ya ziyada nahi yahi 3 saal pahly ki baat hay aur koi meri age bhi asi nahi hy , Young hi hoon aur is age mai to shoq inthai urooj k hoty hy , laykin Demagh nay aik din sirf sochny per majboor kiya k mai kar kya raha hoon ? mai kis jagha jaa rha hoon ? mai kis family ka hoon ? mera deen kiya hy ? mera culture kiya hy ? kon sa sahi rasta hay kon sa ghalt hy ... aur sab foran hi chor diya jab mujhy qabar nazar aagai , jab mujhy apni zindagee nazar ai aur sab sy barh kar jab mujhy apni Family ko dekha k log kya sochy gy . ?

To Naz ! baat khatam honay wali to nahi hy laykin samjhny wali zaroor hay ... hum nay samjhna hay hum nay hi sab badlna hay kuo k hum hi ya sab lay kar ay hy aur hamin nay in sab cheezo ko apno sy duur karna hy .

Bhoook lag gai hy ab me ko chips khanay hay

FeamnAllah